You see, great leaders realize that they are not the point. They fully embrace the fact that this life is not about them, but about God. They willing cast the spotlight on God, and on others, because they realize that they are not the star of the show, they are not the center of attention, and they are not the bridegroom, but just the friend of the bridegroom. Their job is simply to watch and wait and listen for the bridegroom, and when he arrives, to step aside.
Thus, they prefer being hidden to being seen, being silent to being heard, and being small to being big. In fact they seek to be small, so that God and others might be big. That’s what true leadership is all about.
"Make yourselves small. Make yourselves very small." ~Angela of Foligno