Okay, I get it. Seeing is always a two way street. How we see things is always determined by our own inner dynamics at the time. In order to be able to see things, and people, the way they really are, we must first be truly seen by the One who made us, the One who knows us, and the One who loves us. Without first being seen, known, and loved by Him, we will always be far too consumed and concerned with the way we are seen by others. We will always live in order to prove our worthiness, rather than living because the One who made us has pronounced us worthy. We will always live in order to achieve an identity, rather than living because he has already bestowed an identity (as his beloved) upon us.
That was certainly the case with Simon the Pharisee. He was so consumed with himself that he was unable to see who and what was right there in front of him. He was so full of his own fears and insecurities that he had no room to see the beauty of what had just taken place between Jesus and this sinful woman. He was so busy criticizing and comparing and trying to convince himself and his world that he was more worthy of love, that he was unable to see the passion and the affection and the beauty of her gesture. Because when you are consumed with yourself, you can never see others for who and what they really are; they become threats and competitors rather than fellow travelers and pilgrims in this amazingly complex journey.
Simon could see nothing but himself, so Jesus had to take a moment to help him see the situation for what it really was. He pointed out the beauty of the woman’s act of love, as well as the contrast of Simon’s lack thereof. In helping Simon see the woman, Jesus had also helped Simon see himself. For only after we have been seen do we having any hope of seeing others the way God intended for us to.
You see me, Lord Jesus. Wherever I am, and whatever I am doing, and whatever is going on in my life, help me to always realize that you see me, you know me, and you love me. And because of that I have the freedom to see, know and love others. Thanks be to God! Amen.