Divergence and convergence. Two important, and really underrated, concepts as far as the life of the Spirit is concerned. One involves a growing apart, while the other involves a coming together. One consists of differing paths, while the other consists of adjoining ones. One involves dissonance, and the other consonance; one harmony, and the other disharmony. One often requires a letting go, while the other requires a taking hold. I could go on, but I think you get the idea.
It is often with these subtle, almost imperceptible movements, that the Spirit of God attempts to lead and guide and direct us. Which means we must be in constant prayer. We must pay careful attention to the very ebb and flow of his currents, both within and around us. If not, we might miss what he’s up to; for God’s nudge is ever so gentle at times.
Thus, it is imperative that we keep a lookout for the ways and the people and the places where life and love and growth and fruitfulness and freedom are bubbling up within and around us, so that we may join with him in those. And it also means that we must pay careful attention to those ways and people and places where just the opposite is happening. The places where there seems to be a growing distance, either spiritual, emotional, or physical. The places where differing goals or desires or passions or paths are trying to communicate a need for a reorientation of some sort. Or maybe even a letting go (even if it's just a letting go of expectations and demands), if that is what God is calling us to.
So let me ask you, where are you noticing divergence and convergence within or around you? And what is God trying to say to you through that? Are there ways he is asking you to let go? And are there ways he is inviting you to take hold? These questions can be a great help as you seek to know his will and his ways.