Jesus said, “Feed my sheep. I tell you the truth, when you were younger you dressed yourself and went where you wanted; but when you are old you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go.” Jesus said this to indicate the kind of death by which Peter would glorify God. Then he said to him, “Follow me!” (John 21:18-19)
Feed my sheep. Stretch out your hands. Follow me. That is what our lives are to be about: minister, surrender, and follow. That's it. It's not very complicated. But obviously we do complicate it. Maybe that's because our regular default mode is not to minister, surrender, and follow, but to feed ourselves, desperately try to control our world, and set our own agenda. We are not much for that whole led to where you do not want to go thing. But I guess that's where we have to be reminded that this life is not about us, but about him. It was a lesson the disciples had to learn over and over. And it is the simple truth that Jesus was trying to teach Simon Peter at this very moment, "You only truly love me when this is what your life looks like. Otherwise, you are just loving yourself in a clever disguise.